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Tuesday, May 24, 2011

What Should I Really Become?





Find the real you!!


Hi Fashionistas,


        Now that me and my lovely readers have become confidante, I wanted to pen down a few thoughts about men.I am not very good in understanding men just the way they are poor in understanding us. Sometimes I used to find myself stuck with the reality and the fantasy . Why is it that most men dream of models and celebrities like Heidi Klum or Gisele, but when we try to become like them(in which most of us fail terribly) we are criticized or people make fun of us. The point is most of us really keep modifying ourselves so as to adjust and mingle with the people around, to be loved and liked by others. I wonder then where this line "Be Yourself" plays its part. Why is it if these gorgeous girls(celebs and models) hide themselves behind thick sheets of make up they are said to be beautiful and if we try to conceal our imperfections, others think we show off. Where is the balance? What is the right way to be? Is it in being yourself or being adjusting.?




Brooke Elliot: A true diva!


      We all have imperfections and most of us are not lucky enough to afford those high cost surgeries or expert advise. People spend most of their lives in thinking about the right way to be. Is the path to the enlightenment goes only to the Sanyasa(The life of hermits as in Hinduism) or through just finding balance between the situations? Alright, girlfriends, I am not going to write a second Sex & the City book. All what I want to say is that, doing things which make you happy is not always wrong as long as it is not hurting others. There is nothing wrong if you are not tall and you wear heels, there is nothing wrong if you have freckles and you use concealer to hide them. Some of us wear plus sizes, but we are still blessed and beautiful. Its alright to hide imperfections as long as you don't feel ashamed of the true you! The world may criticize you for several things but if you stand tall and face the truth, if you have the courage, whatever the world has to say about you does not matters. “As we drive along this road called life, occasionally a gal will find herself a little lost. And when that happens, I guess she has to let go of the coulda, shoulda, woulda, buckle up and just keep going.”, said Carrie in Sex & the City.Life is too short to worry about every one in this world(as such the world population 6.92 billion ), so live your life your way.If you love to dress up little extra, its alright! Just be yourself, Love yourself!


Have faith  in yourself!